MARY'S DIVA SPECTACULAR  The first time I fell in love with Mary's was one night out down the East End, stumbling into the club, taking advantage of the 'Schlong Island Ice Teas' (nice), and being in awe of the Diva's performing their hearts out on stage. Being able to see people transform themselves, to shine a light on a different part of their personality, to be able to lip-sync to their hearts content and be happy and comfortable while doing so, is some…